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We can strive on the path of knowledge all our lives through, and never complete our learning. If sought with a pure intention to seek the pleasure of Allah, seeking knowledge will be a means of reward for us in this life and the next. May Allah bless this site for all those who sincerely seek knowledge of Islam, for His sake. Lantern Of Knowledge"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing" 7月3日 THINGS ARE NOT ALWAYS BLACK OR WHITEWhen I was in elementary school, I got into a major argument with a boy in my class.... I have forgotten what the argument was about, but I have never forgotten the lesson I learned that day. I was convinced that "I" was right and "he" was wrong ... and he was just as convinced that "I" was wrong and "he" was right. The teacher decided to teach us a very important lesson. She brought us up to the front of the class and placed him on one side of her desk and me on the other. In the middle of her desk was a large, round object. I could clearly see that it was black. She asked the boy what color the object was. "White," he answered....I couldn't believe he said the object was white, when it was obviously black! Another argument started between my classmate and me, this time about the color of the object. The teacher told me to go stand where the boy was standing and told him to come stand where I had been. We changed places, and now she asked me what the color of the object was. I had to answer, "White." It was an object with two differently colored sides, and from his viewpoint it was white. Only from my side was it black. My teacher taught me a very important lesson that day: You must stand in the other person's shoes and look at the situation through their eyes in order to truly understand their perspective...because once you have closed your mind to thinking that only you are right, you have actually rejected the whole truth... Allahu 'Alam Bissawab 12月28日 Why I Chose Islam -Why I Chose Islam - Jemima Goldsmith (Wife of Imran Khan) The media presents me as a naive, besotted 21-year-old who has made a hasty decision without really considering the consequences—thus effectively condemning herself to a life of interminable subservience, misery and isolation. Although I must confess I have rather enjoyed the various depictions of a veiled and miserable "Haiqa Khan" incarcerated in chains, the reality is somewhat different. Contrary to current opinion, my decision to convert to Islam was entirely my own choice and in no way hurried. Whilst the act of conversion itself is surprisingly quick—entailing the simple assertion that "there is only one God and Muhammad is His Prophet"—the preparation is not necessarily to speedy a process. In my case, this began last July, whilst the actual conversion took place in early February—three months before the Nikah in Paris. During that time I studied in depth both the Qur’an and the works of various Islamic scholars (Gai Eaton, the Bosnian president Alia Izetbegovic, Muhammad Asad), thus giving me ample time to reflect before making my decision. What began as intellectual curiosity slowly ripened into a dawning realisation of the universal and eternal truth that is Islam. In the statement given out of week ago, I particularly stressed that I had converted to Islam entirely "through my own convictions". The significance of this has been largely ignored by the press. The point is that my conversion was not, as so many have assumed, a pre-requisite to my marriage. It was entirely my own choice. Religiously speaking there was absolutely no compulsion for me to convert prior to my marriage. As it explicitly states in the Qur’an, a Muslim is permitted to marry from "the People of the Book"—in other words, either a Christian or a Jew. Indeed, the Sunnah—which describes the life of the Prophet—shows that the messenger of Islam himself married both a Christian and a Jew during his lifetime. I believe that much of this hostility towards my marriage and conversion stems from widespread misconceptions about an alien culture and religion. Not only is there a huge gulf between the Western view of Islam and the reality, but there is in some cases also a significant distinction between Islam based directly on the Qur’an and the Sunnah and that practised by some Islamic societies. During the last year I have had the opportunity to visit Pakistan on three separate occasions and have observed Islamic family life in practice. Thus, to some extent I now feel qualified to judge for myself the true role and position of women in the religion. At the risk of sounding defensive, I would like to point out that Islam is not a religion which subjugates women whilst elevating men to the status of mini-dictators in their homes.I was able to see this first-hand when I met Imran’s sisters in Lahore: they are all highly educated professional women. His oldest sister, Robina, is an alumnus of the LSE and holds a senior position in the United Nations in New York. Another sister, Aleema, has a master’s degree in business administration and runs a successful business; Uzma is a highly qualified surgeon working in a Lahore hospital, whilst Rani is a university graduate who co-ordinates charity work. They can hardly be seen as "women in chains" dominated by tyrannical husbands. On the contrary, they are strongminded independent women—yet at the same time they remain deeply committed both to their families and their religion. Thus, I was able to see—in theory and in practice—how Islam promotes the essential notion of the family unit without subjugating its female members. I am nevertheless fully aware that women are sometimes exploited and oppressed in Islamic societies, as in other parts of the world. Judging by some of the articles which have appeared in the press, it would seem that a Western woman’s happiness hinges largely upon her access to nightclubs, alcohol and revealing clothes; and the absence of such apparent freedom and luxuries in Islamic societies is seen as an infringement of her basic rights. However, as we all know, such superficialities have very little to do with true happiness. Besides, without in any way wishing to disparage the culture of the Western world, into which I was born, I am more than willing to forego the transient pleasures derived from alcohol and nightclubs; and as for the clothes I will be wearing, i find the traditional shawlar kameez (tunic and trousers) worn by most Pakistani women far more elegant and feminine than anything in my wardrobe.Finally, it seems futile to speculate on my chances of marital success. Marriage, as Imran’s father has been quoted as saying, is indeed "a gamble". However, when I see that in a society based on family life the divorce rate is just a fraction of that in European or American society, I cannot see that my chances of success are any less than if I had chosen to marry a Westener. I am all too aware of the enormous task of adapting to a new and radically different culture. But with the love of my husband and the support of his family I look forward to the challenge wholeheartedly, and would like to feel that people wish me well. Whilst I do appreciate the genuine concerns of many, I must confess to feeling somewhat bewildered by all of the commotion. 12月27日 The First Ten Days of Zul~HijjahSignificance of the First Ten Days of Zul Hijjah
By Shaykh Muhammad Saleem Dhorat
12月25日 Daily Prayer
9月1日 My friend: the football fan who dreamed of being a doctorWaheed Zaman, 22, is a student arrested last week under the Terrorism Act. His best friend tells his story Tuesday August 15, 2006 The Guardian http://www.guardian.co.uk/terrorism/story/0,,1844721,00.html At 12.53am on Thursday last week I received a text message. Even before reading it I knew that it was Waheed, my best mate, trying to find out whether I was awake. He asked if I wanted to meet with him for a midnight run to the chicken shop down the road for a burger. Waheed was always one for late-night takeaways and never hesitated to call when the hunger pangs kicked in. I was always the one he chose for company. We were like brothers. But I had eaten, so I passed and promised to meet him in the morning. I had no idea what was about to happen to him in the next hour. At 14.13 in the afternoon I received a phone call from my cousin who told me to watch the news. I did, and the emotions experienced during 9/11 and 7/7 came flooding back. I was scared - it was that time again. A time for feeling victimised, bowing your head on the tube and marketplaces, and defending the mosque. But at this point I was still unaware that the individuals accused were my own neighbours and friends. Within half an hour I received another phone call from a friend who broke the news that Waheed, my sidekick, had been arrested. Waheed Zaman is a 22-year-old student who is well-known around the community of Walthamstow, where everyone knows everyone's business. He is 6ft 2in, broad-built and he's invariably got a cheeky smile. Waheed lives round the corner from me, and we've known each other since childhood. As kids, we went to the same school, played football by the gates next to my house. We played knock-down ginger on the very streets that are now flooded with press. As teenagers, we'd spent hours on the sofa playing computer games, drinking cups of tea and emptying packets of cookies. We're now at Metropolitan University together. The guy is a real comedian and does amazing Chinese and Irish accents. He's the clown of our group. If he was working down the street and someone shouted "Osama bin Laden" he'd come up with some witty reply, and smile. A typical day for Waheed consisted of eating takeaway, and debating who Rafael Benítez should buy for Liverpool, the team he supported since childhood. He was such a keen fan we nicknamed him "Rafa". Like most young men our age Waheed liked to look good and dressed in a combination of western and Islamic attire. It was like two people in one: spiky gelled hair, sunglasses and a traditional beard. Him and my brother used to play football and come back crowing about how great they are. Waheed liked his work at Hamleys toy shop in the West End. His sunny disposition appealed to all backgrounds. He had many white, Asian and black friends. On the religious side, my friend was a spiritual man who preached about the basics of Islam: help people, be charitable, do community work. In December 2002 we both became more religious, and later grew we our beards together. It had nothing to do with politics. A lot of it was to do with seeing young Muslims around us into drugs, car theft, joy riding. No one was preaching the beauty of Islam. We thought: let us be the ones to start that off, to reform the community. We attended Tablighi Jamaat events at mosques across the country. Tablighi taught us how to bring Muslims and non-Muslims towards Islam, and how to rectify our lives. These are far from terror camps. His was elected head of the Islamic society [at university] last year because of his moderate ways. Contrary to the claims that is a biochemist, he studied biomedical science; he wanted to be a doctor, it was his lifetime ambition. Little did he know that those hopes would be destroyed. In two weeks he was to sit for exams which he had been revising tirelessly. I'm not surprised some sections of the media have claimed he was a biochemist - it fits with the picture they want to portray. Why should anyone be shocked that the Muslim community does not have faith in the media when they report like that? Despite the British judicial system stating that a person is "innocent until proven guilty", the press seems to have a different stance. Is the innocence of a person not compromised by them being named and shamed? The reputation of a man is tarnished when he is named, even if he only stands accused - not convicted - of a crime. Waheed's house, a stone's throw away from the Masjid-e-Umer mosque, has added to the negative portrayal. In the past few days the local mosque, a place of worship and reflection, has been presented in an inconceivably ill light. It has been mentioned that some of the suspects, including Waheed, attended this mosque, as if it was some sort of platform for suspected terrorists. Those who are familiar with the mosque will know it preaches integration. The mosque is used as a centre for learning and teaching the salient features of Islam to both Muslims and non-Muslims. After 9/11 and 7/7 Waheed was sceptical about whether Muslims could have been responsible. He watched conspiracy videos on the internet. He believed them and thought they made sense. Like most people in the world, he was anti-war. But his solution was: fight the enemies of Islam by showing them the real Islam, a religion of peace. Muslims condemn attacks on civilians wherever they are and work hard with the authorities to fight terrorism. But in return they see that their mosques and scholars are still criticised. The thought crosses the mind that the Qur'an itself may one day be called a terrorist book. But evil has no religion. Do I think there is any possibility in the world Waheed would be involved? Could he have kept a secret? Could there have been a side to him that someone who spent most of the day, every day, with him, could not see? My answer is no. I bet my life on it. 7月1日 Run, Run, RunA long time ago, there was an Emperor who told his horseman that if he could ride on his horse and cover as much land area as he likes, then the Emperor would give him the area of land he has covered. Sure enough, the horseman quickly jumped onto his horse and rode as fast as possible to cover as much land area as he could. He kept on riding and riding, whipping the horse to go as fast as possible. When he was hungry or tired, he did not stop because he wanted to cover as much area as possible. He came to a point when he had covered a substantial area and he was exhausted and was dying. Then he asked himself, “Why did I push myself so hard to cover so much land area? Now I am dying and I only need a very small area to bury myself.”
The story is similar with the journey of our Life. We push very hard everyday to make more money, to gain power and recognition. We neglect our health , time with our family and to appreciate the surrounding beauty and the hobbies we love. One day when we look back , we will realise that we don’t really need that much, but then we cannot turn back time for what we have missed. 6月13日 Right Place Right TimeAllah (SWT) has a way of allowing us to be in the right place at the right time....
I was walking down a dimly lit street late one evening when I heard muffled screams coming from behind a clump of bushes. Alarmed, I slowed down to listen and panicked when I realized that what I was hearing were the unmistakable sounds of a struggle: heavy grunting, frantic scuffling and tearing of fabric. Only yards from where stood, a woman was being attacked. Should I get involved? I was frightened for my own safety and cursed myself for having suddenly decided to take a new route home that night. What if I became another statistic? Shouldn't I just run to the nearest phone and call the police? Although it seemed an eternity, the deliberations in my head had taken only seconds, but already the cries were growing weaker. I knew I had to act fast. How could I walk away from this? No, I finally resolved, I could not turn my back on the fate of this unknown woman, even if it meant risking my own life. I am not a brave man, nor am I athletic. I don't know where I found the moral courage and physical strength-but once I had finally resolved to help the girl. I became strangely transformed. I ran behind the bushes and pulled the assailant off the woman. Grappling, we fell to the ground where we wrestled for a few minutes until the attacker jumped up and escaped. Panting hard, I scrambled upright and approached the girl, who was crouched behind a tree, sobbing. In the darkness, I could barely see her outline, but I could certainly sense her trembling shock. Not wanting to frighten her further, I at first spoke to her from a distance. It's OK," I said soothingly. "The man ran away. You're safe now." There was a long pause and then I heard the words, uttered in wonder, in amazement. "Dad, is that you?" And then, from behind the tree, stepped my youngest daughter, Maaria. Do all the good you can, |
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